The F.I.G.H.T. Plan®: Books, Courses, and Training for Healthier Conflicts, Less destructive fights and Deeper Connection.
Most couples argue, repeat patterns, and feel emotionally stuck — even when they car
What if the problem isn't the fights...
but how you're fighting?
When conflict keeps repeating, it
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The F.I.G.H.T. Plan Workbook
Used by thousands of couples, this workbook helps you decode your fights and reconnect — without needing a PhD in psychology.
- Identify your unique conflict patterns in under 10 minutes
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- Learn the 5-step F.I.G.H.T. framework that actually works
- Practice with real scenarios and conversation scripts
- Track your progress with built-in reflection exercises
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