When most people hear “betrayal” in relationships, they immediately think of cheating. But betrayal isn’t just an affair. It can take many subtle forms that are just as damaging, if not more so. Dr. Carlos Todd, a conflict resolution specialist, explains that betrayal occurs whenever your partner feels you are not truly there for them. […]
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Many people wonder how to love if you have never seen it. Love is often thought of as natural, but in reality, most of us learn how to love by observing others, parents, family members, or role models. Dr. Carlos Todd, conflict resolution expert, points out that much of what we do daily comes from
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Couples fight plan – it may sound strange at first, but when conflict arises in relationships, having a structured approach can be the difference between strengthening your bond and letting things spiral into bitterness. Dr. Carlos Todd, a conflict resolution expert, addresses this topic in one of his episodes of Conflict TV. He explains that
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Dr. Carlos Todd, conflict resolution specialist, sheds light on how to handle these situations in his episode of Conflict TV. According to him, “If your partner needs space, it’s not an abandonment of the relationship. It’s simply a need for personal time to recharge.” In this blog, we’ll explore why space in a relationship is
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Change in a relationship is inevitable. Whether it’s a shift in your partner’s career, the arrival of children, or growing emotional needs, relationships are constantly evolving. Sometimes these changes feel exciting; other times, they bring challenges that are hard to overcome. Dr. Carlos Todd, a conflict resolution expert, highlights the importance of accepting and embracing
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Anger and PTSD often go hand-in-hand, yet many people struggle to differentiate between normal anger and the anger associated with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). The reality is, trauma can significantly affect how we experience and express anger, leading to confusion between conditions like ADHD and PTSD. In this blog, we’ll explore the connection between anger
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Conflict is often seen in a negative light, but when embraced constructively, it can be a powerful tool for personal and relational growth. Many couples avoid conflict to keep the peace, but this avoidance can lead to stagnation and missed opportunities for strengthening the relationship. In this blog, we will explore seven good reasons couples
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Introduction Stuart:Hi there! And welcome to the Couples Expert Podcast. This is Stuart Fensterheim, the Couples Expert, and welcome back to the place to learn about relationships—what to do in a relationship and, more importantly, what not to do. Today, I have with me Dr. Carlos Todd. Most of you know that I’m involved with
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The holiday season is meant to be a time of joy, relaxation, and family bonding. However, for many, it can also bring holiday conflict. With so many expectations and family dynamics at play, stress levels can rise, leading to disagreements and tension. Whether it’s about travel plans, gift-giving, or simply managing family dynamics, holiday stress
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The word “conflict” often carries negative connotations, especially when it comes to relationships. When you hear about couples who are always disagreeing, you might assume they have a dysfunctional partnership. But in reality, relationship conflict can be a healthy and vital aspect of a strong and thriving relationship. The key lies in relationship conflict resolution
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